You are precious!

Do you know how precious you are?  How wonderfully unique and exquisite you are?  Do you respect and cherish yourself each and everyday?  Mmmmm I wonder how many of us beautiful creatures actually do really care for ourselves.   We are so busy running around chasing children, working, looking after partners, parents, dogs, cats, ...... (insert your own) that we often neglect the most important person here and that is ourselves!!!

Its all well and good booking a hairdressing appointment or taking some time off to have your nails done, yes I agree, pampering is a sure fire way to boost our self esteem and confidence.  But I'm talking about something much deeper here.  Do you really value yourself, do respect yourself and do you feel you are number one in this life?  Asking these questions nearly always brings up some unexpected emotions.  Be true to yourself and ask yourself these questions and sit with them and see how you feel.  Only when you believe wholeheartedly that you are enough, that you are worthy, that you have so much value, only then does great change begin.

I was having a conversation with one of my dear clients yesterday, she was having some business problems and was very upset.  She described to me the conversation she had with her husband the night before.... he was very busy with a project he was working on and she was talking to him about her business problems.  As she was describing her situation to him, she suddenly stopped and said "oh don't worry, you are busy, I'm going to bed".   Now I'm not sure what anyone else would pick up from this but I looked deep into her eyes and I said "that doesn't sound like a woman who values herself and what she does."  Tears pricked her eyes and I knew Id hit the nail on the head.  If we cant learn to value ourselves then no one can, this is played out often in a marriage/partnership where the woman believes that her problems aren't as important as her husbands.

This is powerful stuff and by not recognizing your value, your brilliance even, this will send out the relevant messages into the world that you are of no value and you will get treated likewise.   I'm sure that you know this but not only do we have to manage and stay in control of our own thoughts we are bombarded on a daily basis via all media that we are not good enough and these messages get deep rooted into our subconscious if we are not aware.

So beautiful creatures please accept that you are precious,  honor the responsibility that you are priceless and that you deserve the utmost respect from yourself and everyone else.  Sit with these thoughts and just see how they feel, try them on for size...  and you will find that you being you is a perfect fit and its your birthright to be glorious xxx